Iwa Rere: Building Character the Yoruba Way

This blog post delves into the Yoruba concept of „Iwa Rere,“ which translates to „good character.“ It explores the importance of Iwa Rere in living a meaningful life and offers practical ways to cultivate these virtues in your daily routine.

What is Iwa Rere?

Iwa Rere goes beyond simply avoiding bad deeds. It emphasizes actively developing positive qualities like:

  • Respect
  • Compassion
  • Perseverance
  • Humility

The Yoruba believe true character is built through overcoming challenges. The proverb „Ìyà ńlá ń jẹ́ ọmọdé ẹni l’ójú“ (Suffering educates another’s child) reflects this concept. Difficulties refine us, shaping our responses and resilience.

The Myth of Shango: A Story of Transformation

The captivating myth of Shango, the powerful yet flawed Orisha, exemplifies the transformative power of hardship. Initially arrogant and prideful, Shango is cast down to earth by Obatala, the wise sculptor of the gods. Stripped of his godly powers, Shango is forced to learn humility and compassion through hardship.

From Pride to Perseverance

Shango encounters a village suffering from drought. Remembering his power over thunder, he pleads for rain, but without his godly connection, his pleas are unheard. Dejected, he finds help from a village elder who teaches him about perseverance and using one’s gifts for good.

The Power of Humility and Hard Work

Through hard work and helping the villagers, Shango rediscovers his inner strength. He learns the value of humility and compassion. As he perseveres under the relentless sun, his connection to the divine is restored, and rain falls upon the parched land.

Becoming a Worthy Leader

Shango is reborn, not just as a powerful Orisha, but as a leader worthy of respect. He rules with justice and compassion, forever remembering the lessons learned through suffering. The tale of Shango teaches us that even the mightiest can be shaped by hardship, and true character is built on humility and the will to overcome.

Morning Blessing Your Ori: A Daily Practice for Iwa Rere

Yoruba tradition emphasizes starting your day by acknowledging your Ori (your spiritual head) to set an intention for good character and success. Here’s a simple practice you can incorporate into your morning routine:

  1. Upon waking: Take a few deep breaths to center yourself.
  2. Blessing your Ori: Place your right hand over your head and recite the following prayer: „Ori rere ni mo fese, Aṣẹ!“ (I desire good character, May it be so!)

This small act sets the tone for a day guided by good character.

A Ritual for Ori Rere (Good Character)

Yoruba tradition offers various rituals to connect with Orisha (deities) and cultivate personal growth. Here’s a small ritual aligned with Ori Rere (good character):

Items:

  • A white candle (symbolizes purity and good intentions)
  • Omi (water) in a small cup (represents cleansing and potential)
  • Obi (kola nut) – four whole pieces (used for divination and offerings)
  • Efun (white powder) – optional (symbolizes blessings and spiritual connection)
  • Your favorite fruit (represents personal offering and gratitude)

Steps:

  1. Find a quiet space: Choose a clean and distraction-free area in your home.
  2. Cleanse yourself and the space: Wash your hands with water (Omi) and visualize negativity washing away. Light the white candle, letting its flame fill the space with positive energy.
  3. Center yourself: Take a few deep breaths, focusing on your intention to cultivate Ori Rere.
  4. Divination with Obi (optional): If you have Obi, hold the four pieces in your closed hands and ask your Ori (destiny) to guide you towards good character. Cast the Obi onto a white plate or clean surface. Even numbers (two or four facing up) can be interpreted as a positive sign, while odd numbers (one or three facing up) might indicate a need for introspection and focus.
  5. Offering and prayer: Hold the fruit in your hands and express gratitude for your blessings. Speak to your Ori, acknowledging its role in shaping your character. Mention specific qualities you want to cultivate, like honesty, kindness, or perseverance.
  6. Pour Omi: Gently pour some water (Omi) around the base of the candle, symbolizing the nurturing of your good intentions.
  7. Closing: Thank your Ori and extinguish the candle with your fingers (avoid blowing it out).

Additional elements:

  • You can incorporate prayers or chants specific to Ifa or Orisa associated with good character, like Obatala (associated with purity and creation).
  • If you have Efun, you can sprinkle a small amount on yourself or the offering as a symbolic blessing.

Remember, this is a basic framework. Feel free to personalize it with elements that resonate with you. The most important aspect is your sincere intention to cultivate good character and connect with your Ori.

Conclusion

Embracing Iwa Rere teaches us that cultivating good character is a rewarding challenge. The myth of Shango serves as a reminder that humility, perseverance, and compassion are the hallmarks of a well-lived life. Let this story inspire you to navigate challenges with the knowledge that growth often comes from hardship.

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